TV / Radio Broadcast for Author shel

NEWS FLASH!!  Author Shelby Wagner – Guest Appearance on the “Beyond Confidence” Broadcast with Divya Parekh – UNCONVENTIONAL SENIOR YEARS – MONDAY, FEB. 8, 2021 7:55 pm – 8:50 PM Link to connect for your W4WN Radio and Talk 4 TV Show for this week for all hosts and guests :  Beyond Confidence – UNCONVENTIONAL SENIOR YEARS.  Make sure you and your guest(s) enter the broadcast studio 5 minutes before your show. Divya Parekh Show – Beyond Confidence

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News Buzz!

My newly updated version 2 is now available on amazon.com and barnesandnoble.com – 2021 will bring in many surprises, hopefully all good ones. check out my new edition. The new book contains the same material as the first so you don’t have to buy both, but please leave a review under the one that says II. I NEED REVIEWS! If you liked the first edition this is even better and comes in hardback edition. You can leave a review if 1) you buy the book on Amazon; 2) have purchased anything on Amazon in the last 3 months; and 3) if you are making any purchase of $50 or more. P-L-E-E-E-E-A -S-E  write a review for my new book . . .!

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Now Available

My new second edition is now available on Amazon and Barnes and Nobles and any bookstore for order. It’s title is  “Learning to Dance in the Rain II – Surviving Grief, Internet Dating and Romance Scams. A grieving widow heals, returns to well-being, explores the options for her future, and learns the deceitful tools used by romance scammers on social media, who prey like vultures circling ’round seniors and other singles to rob them of their money through their hearts. Learn from this victim how to avoid losing your money and your heart.  

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The Pandemic

Hello Everybody, I apologize for not writing sooner. Are you as tired of this “lock-down” as I am? Who ever thought that in 2020 we would be required to stay home? or having a mask as a staple in our wardrobes? At first I read “Save the mask for the doctors and nurses” and finally we see signs on the windows of the restaurants that are open, “Masks required or no service.” I don’t know about you, but I cannot recognize my friends behind their masks, I can’t understand what people are saying, and I’m afraid my little grandson isn’t going to recognize me by the time he is allowed to see me again.  Oh well. It is what it is!

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Men and Women Are Wired Differently (cont.) – #3

What do women want in a man? #13. “A woman wants a man who is educated, has ambition and wealth, is respected, has some kind of status, is tall and strong, dominant, assertive, has strong facial features and a good sense of humor (which shows intelligence, novelty, and flexibility), and willing to make a commitment.” 15 When I asked my women friends to tell me what they wanted in a man, they came up with quite a different list. The want a man who is kind, caring, honest, understanding, thoughtful, clean, handy, old-fashioned, a gentleman, and a good dresser. #14. “A man will never be able to love a woman like she wants him to love her.”  16  “A man loves differently than a woman does. A man wants respect and to him love is respect.” 17 A man shows that he loves a woman by providing for her, protecting her, and doing things for her. A woman needs to learn to recognize that these are the signs that he loves her. She needs to notice what he does and understand that he is doing it for her. He is showing her he loves her when he offers to help her. A woman needs to allow a man to help her whenever he offers. Can you let (allow) a man help you? Do you step aside when he offers to do something for you and let him do it? It will improve your relationship when you do this. #15. “A man wants to make a woman happy and if he thinks he cannot make her happy then he will leave her alone.” 18 I was surprised to hear Carlos say this but I am now convinced that this is definitely true. Another relationship book I found helpful is Steve Harvey’s, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. It is easy to read, and very enjoyable. The following two statements are from Harvey: “A woman who genuinely wants to be in a committed relationship… must be able to        understand what drives a man, what motivates him, and how he loves. If she does not understand these things, then she will be vulnerable to his deception and to the games that he plays. . .The game a man plays is to do whatever it takes to get the woman he        approaches to sleep with him.” 19 Again, what can I say? Everybody knows these are true. To help a woman understand a man is the reason I included the messages from Cavallo and Harvey’s books.  

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