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HI, I have been trying to do a personal welcome video to this website for months. I finally accepted the above and now you can meet me personally. Please take a look and I would really appreciate if you would subscribe to my channel on and sign up for my newsletters on the Contact Page. Thank you for listening and keep in touch!

New Video

Announcing I now have my new book in my hands for the first time. Although it says it was released Dec. 10, 2020, due to some technical errors I had them fix, and so it was finally released Feb. 26 (or so) and I finally received my copy today. It is so shiny and new and I am excited. It is available in all online bookstores and offline bookstore can order it for you. Paperback, eBook, Hardcover, and the Audio is in production and should be released soon. Yay! we are on the way.
Yes, you can order it today from the Buy Now button above. Please do me a favor, if you like the book (or if you don’t) please write a review on People don’t buy books unless others have read it and recommend it. 100 reviews are required, I have 3. please do read and share. Thannks

YouTube Video

Hey! [smile :>]! Yay! I made it to You-tube – 3 times in the past couple of weeks.  These are the three videos:
You-tube – Shelby Wagner,
the AuthorsShow
Beyond Confidence, “Unconventional Senior Years”

AND – there is a video with Michael Guberti on facebook. Wow! Hope you enjoy listening to me talk about my passion, internet dating and thwarting romance scammers! Please join me in my mission to raise awareness of this huge problem that is costing seniors and other singles a lot of money, not to mention the broken hearts along the way.



TV / Radio Broadcast for Author shel

NEWS FLASH!!  Author Shelby Wagner – Guest Appearance on the “Beyond Confidence” Broadcast with Divya Parekh – UNCONVENTIONAL SENIOR YEARS – MONDAY, FEB. 8, 2021 7:55 pm – 8:50 PM

Link to connect for your W4WN Radio and Talk 4 TV Show for this week for all hosts and guests :  Beyond Confidence – UNCONVENTIONAL SENIOR YEARS.  Make sure you and your guest(s) enter the broadcast studio 5 minutes before your show. Divya Parekh Show – Beyond Confidence

News Buzz!

My newly updated version 2 is now available on and – 2021 will bring in many surprises, hopefully all good ones. check out my new edition. The new book contains the same material as the first so you don’t have to buy both, but please leave a review under the one that says II. I NEED REVIEWS! If you liked the first edition this is even better and comes in hardback edition. You can leave a review if 1) you buy the book on Amazon; 2) have purchased anything on Amazon in the last 3 months; and 3) if you are making any purchase of $50 or more.

P-L-E-E-E-E-A -S-E  write a review for my new book . . .!

Now Available

My new second edition is now available on Amazon and Barnes and Nobles and any bookstore for order. It’s title is  “Learning to Dance in the Rain II – Surviving Grief, Internet Dating and Romance Scams.

A grieving widow heals, returns to well-being, explores the options for her future, and learns the deceitful tools used by romance scammers on social media, who prey like vultures circling ’round seniors and other singles to rob them of their money through their hearts. Learn from this victim how to avoid losing your money and your heart.